What is the difference between save the date and invitation?

Understand when to send each type of ecard and what to include in them.

Plan requirement: Standard or Pro plan

Short answer: Save the dates announce your date early (6-8 months before); invitations are the formal request to attend (6-8 weeks before).

Save the Date

Purpose: Give guests advance notice to mark their calendars

When to send: 6-8 months before the wedding (earlier for destination)

What to include:
- Your names
- Wedding date
- City/location (general)
- "Invitation to follow"
- Optional: engagement photo

What NOT to include:
- Full venue address
- RSVP information
- Detailed event schedule

Invitation

Purpose: Formally invite guests and collect their RSVP

When to send: 6-8 weeks before the wedding

What to include:
- Your names
- Full date and time
- Venue name and address
- RSVP deadline and link
- Dress code (if any)
- Event schedule details

Who receives each

Save the Date:
- Almost everyone you plan to invite
- Maybe not B-list guests (in case you don't have room)

Invitation:
- Only people you're officially inviting
- Everyone who received a save the date
- Plus any B-list guests you're adding

Tips

  • Save the date builds excitement, invitation makes it official
  • Keep designs consistent between the two
  • Don't include RSVP on save the dates
  • Invitations should have all logistics guests need
  • Both can link to your wedding website

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